I was A single parent of 2 children since they were 7 and 8 years old. They are now 19 and 20. At the time they were what was important in my life. They are grown up now and I can go on with my life. I have indicated myself as average build but think of myself as athletic/fit I guess that is up to you to decide. I stay active working on my house or vehicles. I am just looking for a stable relationship, or friendship, whatever the case may be. I spent 5 years in the military, and then 15 years in health care which is still my profession. I have long hair but am definately not a "hippy", although I do have a motorcycle. I choose to be different or "not normal". I do have a rebellious side to me. I feel that I am financially and emotionally the most stable I have been in my adult life. Good luck to all of you. Hope you find your Romeo or Juliet too.